Most men rather go fight a war on the front lines than, approach a women. That is a sad fact. If you think about it, Women are nothing more than extensions of ourselves. They eat, sleep, drink, talk, shower, brush their teeth just like men. So, WHY are you so afraid to talk to the women that you find attractive?

Today, I’m going to list the top 5 reasons and then,  give possible solution to those reason

1. She won’t think I’m good looking enough for her.

Like they say “If you think you’re right or wrong, you’re right”! Don’t even think about your looks.  If you don’t think about it,  it won’t be an issue.

2. I don’t know what to say.
Say anything! Except a cheesy pickup line like  “Come here often?”.  Intro line should be unique to get the full effect. That doesn’t mean you can’t use the same one on different women.  I have a favorite. that has gotten me phone #’s , dates …ect.
You need to practice. For instance yesterday I was at the post office. There was a women pushing a stroller and carrying a big box. I held the door open for her like a gentleman I then said, “You can drop off my x-mas present later”.  She thought it was very funny! I had no interest in her. So, I just said Happy Holidays. I was just practicing.

I share with people my 3 P’s in life are:
1. Practice - No one ever got good at something without practice.
2. Patience - Be patient with your-self.
3. Perfection - Always strive for perfection, knowing it can never be achieved.

3. I don’t know where to meet women.
Like I said earlier. Women are just extensions of our-selves. They do a-lot of things we do. So, find a hobby. I like to hike, bike and run. I have gotten more dates from those 3 then all the bars or clubs put together.

4. What if she yells at me?
We’ll I’ve approach a-lot of women. In my experienced that has only happened once. If it does happen, try to say something that will break her state like “who’s the whaskely rabbit that got you so angry?”. OK, That would be my answer. You may say something better that fits your personality. What ever you do, don’t yell back at her!

5. What if she laughs at me?
Then have fun with it. ask her what’s so funny. Being laughed at is not a bad thing.
I was recently at a club. These to girls kept looking over at me and laughing. I approached them …( we’ll this is a bad example ). Look everyone wants to have fun.
A women will not be attracted to you if you get upset.  Stay in control.

6. I feel sick to my stomach!
In Japanese martial arts, there is a saying “nana korobi ya oki” which means fall down seven times get up eight. There is no magic bullet to fix that sick feeling problem. But, there is a cure. TALK TO WOMEN!  Just talk to them.  Don’t expect an outcome or anything. After a while you will be able to pickup on their body language and start to feel their energy. You will be able to hear their different voice inflection to tell if they are nervous. This is when you’ll  know if there is a connection between you.

Ok, so I got on a roll and gave you six as a bonus…

Now go meet some women!
Best!

-Phx