You have already found the person who completes you. But for some reason, you allowed her to slip through your fingers. Now you are left with nothing else but sadness and a slim chance of winning her back.

Do you still love your ex-girlfriend? Does she still matter to you after everything you’ve been through? Are you still hoping to reunite with her? If yes, then follow these simple and practical ways on how to get your girlfriend back:

• Wow her

If you have already broken up with her, then you have to court her again just like

the first time. Wow her with your suave moves and dashing personality. Sweep her off her feet by taking her out to a romantic dinner or a relaxing day at the park. If flowers worked on her before, then it can work again this time. Send her a bouquet of flowers together with a box of her favorite chocolate. Although this may seem mushy, the gesture is guaranteed to win you some brownie points. In case this will not work, go all the way and serenade her. After all, you have to be willing to do whatever it takes if you want her back in your arms, even if it means making a total fool of yourself.

• Catch her attention

Don’t ever let your girlfriend see you all sad, lonely, and greatly affected by your

breakup. Instead, do the exact opposite. Show her that you are still attractive to the eyes of other women especially by dating one who is prettier and sexier than she is. This way, you can catch her attention. She will become curious and may start wondering what this woman sees in you and find out for herself. Once she starts to notice you again, then that’s the time you can make your move and prove to her your undying love.

• Change for the better

Have you asked yourself why the two of you split up? Do you even think about

what caused her to leave you? What ruined your relationship in the first place? These are just some of the questions you need to ponder on before making any drastic move in getting your girlfriend back. Who knows? She might have been turned off by your haircut or by the way you wear your clothes. In addition, she could be pissed off by your attitude or had gotten tired of reminding you to put an end to your bad habits. If you want your girlfriend back, now is the time to change for the better. Show her that you are capable of being the person she wants you to be. Make her happy and feel good about yourself at the same time. By doing so, she will be back in your arms in no time at all.

It is a very challenging task to get your girlfriend back. However, if you follow the steps above, you can win her again with flying colors.

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Do you find that bloody depressing, or motivating and exciting? I want everyone out there to remember that this situation is entirely under YOUR control…

VALENTINE’S DAY is here again.

Do you find that bloody depressing, or motivating and exciting?

I want everyone out there to remember that this situation is entirely under YOUR control.

WOMEN are not the source of your feast or your famine. YOU are.

It’s easy to allow yourself to believe that your love life is under the control of “destiny” or some other vehicle of fate, because that allows us to cop out when we need to.

Hey, look, we’ve all done it. I STILL do it once in a while. It feels a lot better to believe that it’s not my fault.

Here’s a little quiz:

SITUATION: You’re in a bar or at a friend’s party, and you see a hot woman that you’d like to meet.

A) You walk over and comfortably start a conversation. She is put at ease, and you eventually get her number and a meeting setup the following week.
B) You walk over and uncomfortably try to start a conversation; she gets uneasy after a while and those dreaded uncomfortable silences creep in. She eventually tells you she has to get back to her friends and walks away.
C) You stay in your chair and find the reasons that she wouldn’t be right for you, never taking the risk of connecting with her.

B and C are what happens most of the time to most guys. And it reinforces your inertia the next time you get an opportunity to meet a woman. Do this enough times and you get trapped in what I call the “Downward Spiral.”

It’s like stage fright. Have you ever had to do something in front of people and find yourself with a serious case of nerves? You’re shaking for hours (if not days) before the event. I used to really HATE having to make a presentation. My legs would get really shaky, and my stomach would knot up.

It’s unnerving to do these new and different things, but you have to remember that you’ll have “butterflies” in your stomach until you get the hang of it. The trick is to get your butterflies to fly IN FORMATION. Make that energy work FOR you, not against you.

You see, once you learn enough about how this game works, you’ll feel a new sense of confidence. The nervousness will still be there for a little bit, until you get the hang of engaging in conversation and saying the things that have the right affect on a woman. But now it will give you POWER, not FEAR.

EVERYTHING you’ve done in your life was new and scary at one point.

Even WALKING was a challenge for you. I remember watching my sister try, using the coffee table as a crutch. She’d wobble and fall, and then keep trying it until she got it. Even if it meant a few dings on her forehead from falling.

We kept trying because we didn’t care about what other people thought. We just knew we had to succeed.

What happens to a lot of people is that they will turn down one of two paths in their lives:

PATH 1: They stop risking and trying, because that means that they MIGHT fail. They get addicted to protecting their Bubble of Comfort. They will usually find a way to avoid looking at it this way, though. They prefer to justify their failure in advance (i.e., never act because they already know what would happen), thus “saving” themselves the pain. Instead, they “save” themselves from success and a better life. They become terminally AVERAGE.

PATH 2: They keep risking and learning and growing. They begin to understand that if you’re NOT failing in life regularly, you’re NOT GROWING at all. They get a taste of the rewards of perseverance and learn one of life’s most unknown secrets: The best prizes in life are just an inch past your highest level of reluctance.

If you ever find yourself in a situation where you are afraid to act, ask yourself this one question: WHAT IS THE WORST THING THAT COULD HAPPEN? Then imagine it happening, and ACCEPT IT. Completely accept it and the consequences. Is it really THAT bad?

Once you do that, you’ll find that taking action is EASY.

Valentine’s Day doesn’t have to be lonely or depressing ever again.

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Carlos Xuma is a well-known expert in the dating-seduction related field and an author of bestselling titles such as “Secrets of the Alpha Male“, “Approach Women - NOW!“, “Alpha Immersion” and “Alpha Man Communication & Persuasion“.